Mentoring: “It’s Simply About Being a Friend”

Anyone can become a mentor – but don’t take our word for it! Just hear what these Wyoming community members – who witness acts of mentorship every day – have to say about what it means to be a mentor.

Research tells us that the number one factor in whether or not a child develops the resilience they need to overcome any challenge they may face is whether or not they have a caring adult in their life. Yet, across the US there are 10 million young people who do not have an adult they trust. Mentoring programs are working to close that gap and help ensure that every child has the support they need to find the path to their biggest possible future. Kids in mentoring relationships tend to do better in school, have better relationships with peers and families, develop healthier mental and physical health habits, are less likely to engage in substance abuse and risky behavior, and set bigger better goals for themselves and their futures. Positive mentoring can have a profound effect on the life of a young person.

A mentor is a caring adult in the life of a young person who believes they have the potential to do anything they set their minds to and helps provide the support to overcome any obstacles in the way. It does not take much to make a huge difference for a kid, it’s simply about being a friend. Mentoring can take place in even the most everyday situations. Walking your dog, washing your car, or taking a quick walk around the park can provide wonderful opportunities to connect with a young person and let them know you care. Showing up for a young person and letting them know they can count on you is truly what matters most.

For more information about volunteering as a mentor, please visit us at bbbswyo.org or give us a call at 307-742-2227.

Source: Big Brothers, Big Sisters Wyoming, Facebook

Stacie Moses, Board Chair
Friends of Pinedale Aquatic Center

A mentor can be anyone who provides guidance and direction to a less experienced or newer member to a group or organization. This process can be formal or informal depending on the needs of the individual seeking mentorship or the organizational needs. A mentoring relationship is one that allows a safe and comfortable space to ask questions, make mistakes, and seek guidance in whatever capacity is needed. A good mentor should provide a non judgmental, open minded, and trusting environment.

There are many ways a mentor can show up to support those working on building skills and experience. To become a mentor, start by offering an inviting, welcoming, and supportive disposition to those you spend your time around each day.